Honoring Your Journey: Self-Care & Healing After Loss

Healing Is Not Forgetting—It’s Honoring Your Love

Grief doesn’t have an expiration date. It changes, softens, and resurfaces in unexpected ways—but it never fully disappears. And that’s okay.

For many parents who have lost a pregnancy or infant, self-care feels impossible. The idea of moving forward may bring guilt, fear, or even resistance. But healing is not forgetting—it’s finding ways to honor your love while also taking care of yourself.

This week, we’re sharing ways to practice self-care after loss, honor your baby’s memory, and find peace in your healing journey.

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What Does Self-Care Look Like in Grief?

Self-care after loss isn’t about spa days or distractions. It’s about:

• Giving yourself permission to grieve—without judgment.

• Surrounding yourself with people who support your healing.

• Processing your emotions through journaling, therapy, or creative outlets.

• Allowing joy and sadness to coexist—because both are part of love.

Taking care of yourself doesn’t mean moving on—it means making space for healing.

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Ways to Honor Your Baby’s Memory

Many parents find comfort in creating meaningful ways to honor their child’s life. Here are a few ideas:

• Create a memory box – Fill it with ultrasound photos, hospital bracelets, or personal letters.

• Plant a tree or flowers – A living tribute that grows in their memory.

• Light a candle on special dates – A simple but powerful way to honor their presence.

• Write a letter to your baby – Expressing love, grief, and connection.

• Participate in Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness events – Find community in shared remembrance.

Your baby’s life mattered, and finding ways to honor them can be a powerful step in healing.

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Finding Peace in Your Healing Journey

Healing doesn’t mean the pain disappears. It means learning to carry it with more love than suffering.

If you’re feeling lost in your grief, remind yourself:

• There is no timeline for healing. Take the time you need.

• Grief and joy can coexist. You are allowed to smile again.

• You are not alone. There is a community ready to walk with you.

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Resources for Healing & Support:

• United by Loss Foundation – Support groups & healing resources.

• Sisters in Loss – A space for Black women to share, heal, and grow.

• Postpartum Support International (PSI) – Mental health support for loss parents.